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Author:  heRroyalPhreshness10 [ Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:16 am ]
Post subject:  friends with benefits? does it really work?

Do u honestly think that you can be really close to somebody and have no strings attached sex? does it really work with out feelings getting involved? what if its your best friend? help!!! i need some opinions.

Author:  KampoutKid NT [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:45 pm ]
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It cant be done for an extended period. Feelings develop on at least one side eventually. It might be the girl first but can also be the dude. Usually takes about a month. One of two things will happen, you'll end up with a man, or you'll get jealous or mad when you find out he's talking to/smashing other chicks...Also remember that situations are only as awkward as you make them, it doesn't matter if you're best friends. Having sex will only bring you closer (probably) :mrgreen:

Author:  jojo1989 [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 1:58 pm ]
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ok, so ive been in this situation before.. it is not the road to go down with your best friend.. as sad as it may seem only do this with a person whose friendship you can risk losing.The guy i was fwb with was not my best friend merely a good friend and it worked for about a year, then i decided i wanted a relationship and he was not the person i wanted a relationship so we parted ways and that was that. i'd never have a fwb with my best friend, but then again im not attracted to my best friend.. ahhh i hope this helps.

Author:  Geoo! [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:32 pm ]
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KampoutKid NT wrote:
It cant be done for an extended period. Feelings develop on at least one side eventually. It might be the girl first but can also be the dude. Usually takes about a month. One of two things will happen, you'll end up with a man, or you'll get jealous or mad when you find out he's talking to/smashing other chicks...Also remember that situations are only as awkward as you make them, it doesn't matter if you're best friends. Having sex will only bring you closer (probably) :mrgreen:

Co-sign

Author:  marcie584 [ Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: friends with benefits? does it really work?

i think it'll appear to be
working for a period of time.
but someone will eventually end up
wanting more & thats when problems
will evolve. i think this should be avoided
unless your looking for problems

Author:  iteriyakix3 [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 10:14 pm ]
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It's gonna seem like it`s all good for the first few weeks or whatever.
THEN BAM. One person starts to develop feelings for the other & everything gets messy.
Just don't do it.

Author:  BizzlesGuttah23 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:55 pm ]
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my honest oppinion it really doesnt work. i dont really roll with the whole friends with benefits. i find it stupid. its either your with it or your gone.

Author:  MadManzWifey [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 10:40 am ]
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i personally don't think it can work i think one person always ends up caring more than the other and then the jealousy its just alot of problems

Author:  banksx3 [ Sat Jun 18, 2011 1:23 am ]
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IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT U R. I THINK IF U GET EASILY ATTACHED, THATS NOT GONNA WORK FOR U. BUT IF UR THE HEARTLESS TYPE.. U WILL B JUST FINE.

Author:  undeniables0le [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 2:12 pm ]
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Friends with benefits seems fun for a while, then someone gets too engaged into the relationship. Eventually, someone will end up upset with the outcome.

Author:  shemarvelousx3 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 10:16 pm ]
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friends with benefits its cool for a matter of time. from past experiences i would be more careful tho bcus depending on whothe person is you could catch feelings or things could jus end up bad so its a 50/50 chance.

Author:  jesse23 [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 2:17 pm ]
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If you really stick to being JUST friends with benefits, It should work out,
But remember you must tell yourself not to get too attached!! :)

Author:  LiDdLe_MaR [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 10:23 am ]
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^ exactly and try not to spend too much time together

Author:  airtiani [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 8:44 am ]
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short time period: yes
long term: NEVER.
i know from watching a friend deal with it.

Author:  crystaleee [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 4:46 am ]
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in my opinion i think there's always gunna be one person who gets too attracted

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