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 Post subject: Boyfriends goin to stripclub for a bday ...?
PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:13 am 
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So my bf is going out with some coworkers for a birthday to a strip club..idk how to feel about this , imean I have no trust for other ppl... and we had a babyboy 7months ago so im still sensitive about how I look and feel...i guess im insecure a lil ...anyways I dont mind hin going its not a biiigggg deal but the thought of him being with a group of guys at a strip club is just so irritating ...the thought of them influencing bad choices is running thru my head maybe im juat being paranoid and worrying to much? I know he wouldnt jepordize our relationship I had already told him how I felt and he said he wouldnt go but I said go ahead bc im bot going to make it a big deal I shouldnt have to worry about things have have crazy shxt run thru my head anymore ...im not the type of girl that keeps her man on lockdown and doesbt let him out ...
(We have been togeather for almost 4 years)
Well let me get to it ... How would you girls felt if your man was goin out to a stripclub with a bunch of guys..? Let him go? Dobt let him go? Be mad or dont worry about it?



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 Post subject: Re: Boyfriends goin to stripclub for a bday ...?
PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 12:08 am 
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how would you "not let him go"?



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i let him go ...but i was just feelin some type of way lol



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First of all, I am deeply and truly disappointed and ashamed at the fact that YOU don't mind him going to a STRIP CLUB (where women will grind on him, take him to a private room, kiss, touch and who knows what else) and at the fact that HE actually wants to go. Makes me doubt the relationship will last longer. Makes me question and assume you have poor standards. No offense.

Second of all, strip clubs are for SINGLE people. I've heard stories of married/taken men going there and then his wife/girl calling the stripper's number in his phone. "WHO IS THIS AND WHY ARE YOU TEXTING MY HUSBAND???" there. Relationship OVER. If not, then it will be a dysfunctional relationship because now the woman is suffering from trust issues and paranoia. Time wasted. HE hurt her. Now she is deeply hurt. Do you know how bad this feeling is? Being the victim of infidelity.
The relationship will NEVER be the same again.

If I were you and knew he even had the thought and desire to go to a strip club then it would be over INSTANTLY.

Third, you and him seem to be committed and have a child already. Why is he even thinking about going to a strip club makes me question his status in the relationship itself. He might even be cheating/creeping around on the down low. Those are obvious signs that he MIGHT be cheating. If you let him go there you're basically giving him permission to cheat on you sooner or later. You're pretty much approving his bad actions and cheating symptoms.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 3:56 am 
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i dont even care to be honest and he dont care if i go!



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stripclub aint nothing for men, its fun to them, they dont go there to cheat, just like women, wouldn't we want to see man strip for the fun of it, it doesn't mean hes gunna cheat or anything, i would let my man go, but if he comes home with stains on his boxers is over for his ass lol



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I think its even wrong for a guy to even think ab out going to a strip club. It's kinda like saying he'd rather go to a strip club than see his girlfriend, you know ?



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ehh its not that big of deal, look but dont touch?? lol


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if he just straight up wants to go without even doubting that i might not be concerned about it, then hes gunna have a problem.


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I don't mind my BF going to strip clubs by himself or with a group of friends...hell I've been with a group of friends and occasionally the couples and spouses all go together in a big group...it can be fun and pretty entertaining. I don't think women get off in the same manner as men, but whatever he's coming home to you at the end of the night and its limited amounts of touching that go on at strip clubs. the only time you need to be worried is if it becomes an on going a habit.



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He can go, as long as I'm coming too! I don't mind seeing some girls :D :D :D



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 Post subject: Re: Boyfriends goin to stripclub for a bday ...?
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he can go && also bring me too lol :)


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shit, i take dance class and LET guys come as close as they do -- my BF absolutely doesn't like it but he LOVES that I LOVE to dance.

TRUST -- key word.

(and plus, he's coming home to you at the end of the day!)


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shit, i take dance class and LET guys come as close as they do -- my BF absolutely doesn't like it but he LOVES that I LOVE to dance.

TRUST -- key word.

(and plus, he's coming home to you at the end of the day!)


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